Review - The Magic of Making Up

"The Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson is an e-book about fixing relationships. It's targeted towards after the break up situations but is also good for refreshing your ongoing relationship, or reviving it from long gone divorce.

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The book of 62 pages is divided into 8 chapters (see image on the left).

Before the chapters, there's a short introduction which briefly covers what the book talks about. The introduction concludes with dividing the book into 4 parts - an action plan that you will take in order the achieve the sole goal - get your ex back. The parts are: understanding, getting your head straight, assessing your situation, and working out the plan. Every part is detailed in the chapters of the book.

First chapter is all about explaining you what has happened, helping you realize what you possibly did wrong and what your partner possibly did wrong. The chapter seeks to explain you the rationality of your break up and why it didn't came out of the blue.

In chapter 2 author tries to calm you down, help you set your mind straight and get you out of the blues. He explains you why you feel the way you do, what to do to feel better and why it is important to get over these feelings. In closing of the chapter a technique called "fast forward technique" is introduced.

In the third chapter T.W. Jackson invites you to analyze your relationship and what went wrong. More specifically this chapter is about deciding whether your relationship can be saved or not, and if it's worth the effort. An exceptional attention is paid to infidelity and how it can affect your decision.

Chapter 4 is the first step of your action plan. In this chapter author explains that you should start working on yourself and gives advice on what possibilities you have. Starting with body and ending with your mind, author goes through each aspect of you and what you might change in yourself to help you ignite the spark of passion and desire between you and your partner.

Chapter 5 talks about dating other people. From your and your partners perspective. It explains you how dating other people can help you and what to do if your ex is dating someone else.

The big step comes in chapter number 6. I would say it's one of the most important chapters if not the most important. In it, author walks you through every single step you have to make for the first contact with your ex, what to say, how to say, what to do on your date, what to do if it goes wrong, what to do if it goes right, etc. The final goal of this chapter is to have your ex back!

After getting back or how to live happily ever after - chapter 7. After getting back together it's important not to fall out again and repeat the tragedy all over again. In this chapter the necessary precautions are explained. This chapter is also good for the couples who may have not been separated but are having trouble with their relationship.

Finally, chapter 8. In this chapter T.W. Jacksons talks about what to do if your relationship after all cannot be saved.

The book comes with bonuses such as "The Clean Slate Method", videos of T.W. Jackson himself answering reader questions and giving tips, as well as the audio version of the book.

To sum up, "The Magic of Making Up" by T.W. Jackson is a comprehensive guide to saving or refreshing your relationship. Being only 62 pages long the book avoids fluff content and goes straight to the point, making it an interesting read that will never bore you. It holds your hand from the beginning to the end, telling you what to do exactly in the hardest moments.

The general feedback about the book on the internet as well as author's dedication to record videos (he has an ongoing series on Youtube) and answer reader emails adds a great value. If you have problems with your relationship and you don't want to spend hours in library or spend hundreds of dollars for counseling, this e-book is worth to have a look.

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The Magic of Making Up

The Magic of Making Up is our hands down favorite guide to reuniting with your ex. Written by a man named T.W. Jackson, he claims to have reunited over 12,000 couples in 67 different countries. And given the impressive material he delivers, we don't doubt those figures.

What we liked most about The Magic of Making Up is just how comprehensive this guide really is. Obviously, he covers in-depth many different techniques on how to get your ex back- but there is a lot more to this guide. T.W. also describes many different methods for dealing with the intense emotional pain you are experiencing, how to prevent breakups in the future, how the psychology of an ex-boyfriend differs from the psychology of an ex-girlfriend, and much more. T.W. also lays out his fair share of novel ideas.

One such novel idea, the instant reconnect technique, is particularly powerful. He refers to it as "psychological judo," and he's not far off. This instant reconnect technique allows for you to subtly manipulate your ex's mind, and "trick" then into thinking you are still together. He also explains what he refers to as the bonding secret. The bonding secret draws from some of the reasons why hostages sometimes bond with their kidnappers (Stockholm Syndrome). These techniques are indeed powerful, so much so, that you may want to hide this book after you get back together with your ex. To top it off, T.W. guarantees you will reunite with your lover within 60 days or he'll refund your money. It's hard to top that.

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Compatibility! What is it? Compatibility is to be capable of existing or performing in harmonious, agreeable, or congenial combination with another or others. It is a feeling of sympathetic understanding, especially one of mutual trust or emotional affinity. It is a relationship characterized by harmony, conformity, and accord.

Thank you Mr Webster. Now, let's break it down into something we can understand and apply it to your relationship.

Some have said that compatible partners are those who have the ability to talk over problems. "What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility,” says George Levinger of the University of Massachusetts.

If you are a compatible couple, you are attuned to and see the value in each other's qualities, especially If they are different than yours.

Another way to look at this is for a couple to have the ability to reach an agreement. They can reach this agreement because they see the value in what their partner is interested in. They don't even have to like what their partner likes, they just have to be okay or value that their partner likes the things they do.

Having a disagreement, with a few exceptions, is not enough to end or even cause any long-term problem in the relationship. The only exception is when your partner's activities are totally in the wrong or morally disgusting to you. In this case, if your partner doesn't stop such activities, you would be facing a true incompatibility in your relationship.

When problems come up in a relationship, you must keep an open mind to the idea that there is a mutually acceptable solution. You have to continue seeking that solution until you find it. Your goal and desire is to make the solution work for the both of you.

When both partners are open to suggestions, and are willing to explore how these suggestions fits into their relationship, you have compatibility.

Lets take for example, recreation.
You may never want to do some of the things your partner does. They may not hold any interest for you what so ever. You don't have to like going fishing or hunting or bowling or doing anything else your wife might enjoy. It's great when you can enjoy things together with your partner, but the sign of compatibility is that you can see that your partner finds value in their pursuits. They should be given the freedom to enjoy outside activities without you feeling that they are doing something detrimental to the relationship.

On the other hand, if your partner is spending too much time engaged in outside activities, that is to say, that they are taking too much time away from you and the family, then chances are pretty good that something else is going on with your relationship that needs attention. Help is available for you at Relationship-in-Crisis.

Compatibility is a thought process. You can make up your mind to find the value in the things that are important to your partner, and to arrange for them to have the freedom to pursue whatever it is as long as it doesn't betray your relationship.

You, on the other hand, would not have to participate in any of these activities. You can agree that your partner is welcome to do so if they wish.

When you are thinking about your partner, think of their style, their world as they paint it. Are you comfortable in it? If not, what is it that you are uncomfortable about? If you made a slight adjustment, could you fit better? When your partner likes something, you need to like, not the something, but to like that your partner likes it.

Conclusion:
You are a compatible couple when you are capable of coming to an agreement about things. Compatibility is determined by how adaptable both of you are rather than by how identical you are. Do you have to like the things your partner likes to be compatible? No, you just have to like that they like the things they do. (say that ten times fast)

Article written by:

John R. Hails Jr.
Marion L. Hails
Relationship Coaches